Sometimes life is just strange and I find myself giving my head a whack with the back of my hand.
Alison asked about Solomon. Alison asks a lot of questions and she is not the type of child who is easily pacified. I often have to ask her to ask me the question again in a few days, when I have had time to think of and formulate a solid answer for her.
She asked how Solomon died. How do you explain pPROM to a ten-year old? Somehow I managed an answer. She knew that when a baby is in a mom's tummy, the baby is swimming in water. I told her this was special fluid that helps the baby breath, like a fish. I explained how my water came out. She asked if this is what it means when 'the water breaks' so I know she understands a little of the mechanics.
I told her usually the water breaks when a mommy is 9 months pregnant and the baby is ready to be born. But in my case, the water came out at 5 months. And because the water helped Solomon breath and grow, and the water was gone, he died.
She got it. She totatly seemed to understand, and went on to resume playing. Go figure.